Wondering how to text a girl on tinder? Gone are the days where Tinder was just an app for hookups. Now people are looking towards Tinder or any other social media for real relationships, especially women. And this is good news for men.
Tinder is just like any other site. If you have a good profile, you will get matches easily. You upload good pictures and write 1 or 2 lines about yourself. And when a girl checks your profile and likes, she will swipe right. And once she has swiped right, half of the battle is won. How you are going to start off your conversation and then meet that amazing girl is all that’s left.
Even though matches might come easily, some guys struggle to start a conversation with a girl. Getting swiped right is useless if you don’t know how to start a conversation and engage in it.
But don’t worry. The focus of this post is on messaging in tinder. If you are confused about how to text a girl on tinder, this is for you.
Get Started With The Conversation
Before you can do anything you need to start off that conversation. One of the best ways to start a conversation is to ask the girl a question or crack a joke that is something specifically about her(just don’t make a joke about her looks). Here are some good tinder pick up lines for some ideas.
A good tip here is to ask a personal question. Don’t just go on copying and pasting the same question to every girl you want to talk to. Girls can find that out. Just go though her profile and look for details in her pictures or profile description.
If you get a reply from the girl you are in luck. These tips will help you in creating a solid foundation for follow up texts even if she has not provided much information in her profile.
Keep Your Message Quality High
Focus more on sending quality messages rather than quantity. A faster exchange of messages can make the conversation more fluid but higher quality messages will help you better in impressing the girl.
You can see in the above example that your message in much more engaging and interesting than the boring guy. Not only you are sharing with her about your interest, you are also giving her a reason for something to talk about.
Once again the boring guy is not giving much reason for the girl to respond back. But your response is clearly letting her know what kind of genre you like in movies which will let her know if both of you have common taste and give enough reason to talk more.
So you should always provide value in your messages which will make it easier for the girl to talk with you more. The fact that she is talking to you shows that she likes you. You just need to help her in making the connection.
Also remember that it’s completely OK for you to take some time to think and respond something intersecting and clever to her text. When you are genuinely communicating with her well, she will not have a problem waiting for a few mins to talk with you.
Keep Is Short And Simple
Most guys make the mistake of talking only about themselves and how awesome they are whenever they text girl on tinder. Whenever you are texting a girl on tinder, remember that it’s a two way conversation and it will get boring for her if she is only on the receiving end of that conversation. Girls are more interested to talk if you can make that conversation two sided.